It's not your fault you're messed up. [ It is her fault how she deals with it, but everyone is different. ]

It's all about how your thoughts cause your feelings, and paying attention to the things you're telling yourself in your own head. Not like mind control or a mind wipe, just... taking control of your own mind. [ Which she thinks would be a much better idea, but she's trying very hard to remain neutral and let Wanda take her own pace. ]